He popped the big question and now you have a fiancé! Now how does that sound? FIANCE! Now that you have declared the big `YES!` what’s next? We have tips on everything from showing off the bling and sharing the big news with friends and family to getting started with the initial stages of planning the big day. But first thing’s first. You’re Engaged so take in the moment!
Get a Manicure
When your friends and family find out that you are engaged, the first thing they are going to do is look at your left hand. Show off your new bling in all its glory. A little TLC to your cuticles and a dab of hand lotion will go a long way!
Tell Friends & Family
As tempting as it may be to update your Facebook status right away, it might be worth waiting just a little while. A huge part of the fun is getting to tell all your closest friends and family about the big news and you might want to relish in each of their reactions. Not only is it fun for you and your husband to be, but your loved ones will certainly appreciate that you took the time and effort to tell them individually.
Buy a Bridal Magazine
You might be feeling a little overwhelmed by the long list of things you will have to do to plan such a big and exciting event. The best place to start is with a little inspiration. Grab a few magazines to get you started!
Before you can get down into the details you need to decide on the big picture. Start to narrow down an event design by getting inspired by all the possibilities. Start up a Pinterest account and begin following top wedding sources, buy some wedding magazines and start regularly following a few inspirational wedding blogs.
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Set The Date
Start with the broad details like a season that sound appealing to you. What colors immediately come to mind? Will it be warm? Cold? How can you ensure your guests are comfortable? Once you have come to a decision, look at the big details like venue and photographer. Find out their availability and you will be well on your way. But in all the excitement, don’t forget to take some time to enjoy this wonderful time in your lives.
Find the Perfect Spot
Start looking into venue options for both your ceremony and reception. Many locations book at least a year in advance, so you’ll want to get a head start and consider as many options as possible. Here’s where that flexibility with your date will come in play.
Before you get too far into what you have to have for your big day, set an overall wedding budget you’re comfortable with. Make sure you’re not overextending yourself financially and that you’re realistic about not only how much you want to spend but also about how much things actually cost. Make sure that both you and your fiance are fully comfortable with the number as if could cause issues later on.